Are Whites Afraid to Communicate With Blacks at Work?
Question: I've joined a new company in May 2006. All of my coworkers are white. I find it very difficult to build a working relationships with them. I often wonder is it my race (black). Do you think whites feel afraid to communicate with blacks on a professional level?
I've joined a new company. All of my coworkers are white. I find it very difficult to build a working relationships with them. I often wonder is it my race (black). Do you think whites feel afraid to communicate with blacks on a professional level? In many cases I feel I can't be myself in order to fit in with the culture of the department. One of the coworkers just said "Hi" to me for the first time. I usually say "Hi" to the person first, but I never hear a response from this person. Is there something wrong with this picture?
I would say yes, there is "something wrong with this picture," and yes, many whites are afraid (apprehensive/intimidated) to communicate with blacks on a professional basis.
But this isn't the case in every workplace. Please consider where you're working and if you can improve that situation. Is there a potential mentor you can reach out to?
Part of white culture in some workplaces is to be cold to everyone. I've yet to experience another culture where this is true. In my opinion, this is another good reason to work in a diverse environment.
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Dana said she was frightened when she saw Brennan Walker, a 14-year-old Black teen, on her porch.
"What are you doing on my porch?" she recalled. "I saw a Black person standing at my door and I screamed at him, and I asked him what he was doing there."
Her report to police: "A Black male was trying to break into her house and her husband chased after him into the yard."
The video shows Zeigler aiming at the teen, despite the claims that he tripped and his gun fired.
Rochester Hills Michigan 6 months ago.
The surveillance footage was just released.
14 y/o Black Teen misses the bus to school & figures he knew the route well enough to walk the 4-mile route. He gets lost, stops to ask for directions, & nearly loses his life.
WHY WE KNEEL! pic.twitter.com/k3cnL3kO6u
— StanceGrounded (@_SJPeace_) October 11, 2018
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Walker, then age 14, had missed his bus to school that morning and came to the Zeigler's door for help. After his wife screamed, Zeigler fired a shotgun at the teen, but missed him.
Zeigler had referred to Walker, in an interview with a sheriff's deputy, as "that colored kid" at his front door. The defense initially claimed it was the interviewing officer who said "colored."
Zeigler also said he was "tired of being a victim."
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Walker's mother, Lisa Wright, who was also in tears in the courtroom watching the video of her son flee for his life, said that she believed the shooting was a hate crime and that she wanted to see the prosecution push this to the fullest extent.
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Walker testified that after he knocked on the front door, which is behind a screen door, Zeigler's wife accused him of trying to break in.
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Zeigler also has a conviction for firing a handgun at another motorist during a dispute in 2004.
Reader Question: Watching the video, would you say Zeigler is innocent or guilty of intent to murder?
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