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Furor Over Hardaway's 'I Hate Gays' Comment: What Our Readers Said
By Eric L. Hinton
February 16, 2007
"Despicable."
"Unacceptable."
"Disturbing."
These
are just some of the words DiversityInc readers used when responding to the news
of former NBA star Tim Hardaway's vitriolic statement regarding gays. (See also: Ex-NBA Star Declares 'I Hate
Gay People')
The
day after, Hardaway's comments were denounced by many, including the NBA, which
banned the retired player and former ESPN commentator from participating in any
NBA all-star activities this weekend.
Here's
just a sampling of the responses DiversityInc received:
"It
saddens me to hear of such bigotry coming from the mouths of black men who are
living within 50 years of a time when they would have been barred from all white
locker rooms based upon notions of trust and that they had no place in this
country. Maybe Dr. King was right when he said that 'the experience of
oppression... only teaches people to oppress.' So what is the fear, gentlemen?
What could a gay player do that would cause you a problem that would not also
cost him his job based upon misconduct? What are you really worried about? Of
course I remember when white people were opposed to having blacks on Big 10
teams because it might cause white 'girls' to want to marry
them."
Ben
Alexander
"Can
you imagine the reaction if he had said the same type of hateful comments about
blacks or Jews? Oh wait, we know what the reaction would have been because of
recent examples of hate speak by celebrities like Mel Gibson and Michael
Richards. There was huge public
outcry and backlash that these two people may or may not ever fully recover
from. Yet, these comments draw little if any publicity. It shows [that] bigotry
against gays, sadly, is still very acceptable in the U.S."
Harvey
Cohen
"I
think the comments made by Hardaway were totally despicable, obnoxious,
condescending, and bluntly rude. I do not mean to be so redundant but to think
that any one person can judge an entire group of people and dictate that group's
rights and freedoms as citizens of our country is outrageous. This sounds like
something out of the holocaust and we should not be taking this lightly.
Apologies are great but they do not make the damage go away. Comments like this
ebb away everything we as people have tried to establish in attempts for
diversity and world peace.
Regardless [of] sexual orientation or any other factor, America was meant
to be the land of the free, and we as human beings owe it to our forefathers and
one another to make this stand true."
Bradd
Church
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"I
listened to Tim Hardaway's statement regarding gays (and by extension, lesbians)
in sports. I was especially disheartened that he used God's name in his
statement. I don't know why he is so upset about a person's sexual orientation.
Is he afraid that it will rub off on him or what? As one who has done a lot of
work with people to help them better understand the many issues of diversity in
our society and the need to be tolerate, I can't support Hardaway's ignorance. I
hope he will recognize that he needs to reexamine his thinking. I would suggest
that he get involved in some type of training that may help his
attitude."
Robert
D. Williams
"I
guess this goes to show my wife is correct in her perspective that professional
athletes are nothing but spoiled kids who never have to grow up. They have their
lame opinions and perspectives ratified by popularity and monetary success. In
NO industry should the marker 'professional' be linked to someone with the
perspectives of Tim. I am a white, straight father of 5 with a stay-at-home
spouse, and also a huge sports fan--a stereotype in itself--I consider myself an
ally to the LGBT community. Tim's comments were
unacceptable."
Tim
Northquist
"I
find it a little disturbing that Tim would say such a thing. I am a Christian
woman, but to say you hate someone is a very serious statement. Hate is such a
strong word and for hundreds of years whites hated anyone not of the same race.
I cannot say that I condone the GLBT lifestyle but at the same time I must
respect them for who they are. Do I hate GLBT people? No. I have to remember
that they are people first with the same likes, dislikes and feelings that I
have. So in the end I don't agree with Tim's statements. I think he has miles to
go within his diversity journey."
Shawna
Banks
"While
comments like these are extremely disheartening and sad to see, it is indeed
naïve to think this kind of hatred and bigotry is not out there and still
widespread. LeBron James' comments
are really no better than Hardaway's. People make comments like these against
gay and lesbian citizens and then wonder why they decide not to openly discuss
their sexual orientation. Unbelievable."
Adam
Apaida
"The
comments of Hardaway reflect that [GLBT people comprise] one of the few groups
that, in general, society tolerates hate and discrimination. We have so much
more work to do to end homophobic thinking--especially among ethnic
minorities. The workplace could
take a lead role in confronting homophobic views."
Billy
S. Jones
What
are your views? E-mail editor@diversityinc.com with your
comments.
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